And just like that, he’s spending his last night in Puerto Rico.
Isn’t it always just like that?
Just like that, you’re graduating and everyone’s I can’t believe how grown up you are!
Just like that, you’re raising a family of your own.
Just like that, your children are graduating and everyone’s like I can’t believe how grown up he/she is!
Just like that, you’re shifting from child to caretaker with a parent.
You feel like you have all the time in the world, but just like that, time’s up!
Our San Juan adventure
I’m grateful that Steven said yes to this adventure in Puerto Rico. The experience was gratifying for him professionally, and I was giddy to take trips to Puerto Rico, where we snorkeled, found the best sushi chef ever, hiked, made new friends, explored Old San Juan, found magical mountain falls, rolled down the windows to hear the coquí, and splashed in a bay of dinoflagellates. Steven loved watching the ships come into the bay. Being the endearingly annoying geek he is, of course he found the website for tracking all ships of a certain size.
Now, just like that, he’s spending his last night with that fabulous view. Harmony is docked there today. And I’m packing up to go back to our home for a couple of weeks, where we’ll work out our new normal.
When I’m here I’m not there and not here when I’m there
Mom seems to be struggling with the idea that I’m leaving tonight. She came down to my house as I was packing. I turned on Netflix Anne with an E for her while I finished packing all but the computer in the car. When I walked her out, she asked if I was taking the gator (the farm vehicle mom and dad use for getting around the property).
No, I’m taking the van. You’re taking the gator.
Where are you going?
I’m going to Baton Rouge.
Yes, Steven’s coming home tomorrow.
How long will you be gone?
A couple of weeks.
What about your . . .
The words didn’t come to her, but I understood when she flapped her arms.
I have another flying lesson on Monday.
How long will you be gone?
Ten to fourteen days. But I’ll call every day.
This was about the tenth time we had this conversation, and we haven’t been around each other that much today. I added the “I’ll call every day” because her face washed out, a panic in her eyes. I truly don’t do much for her, but she feels better when I’m here.
When she drove up the field in the gator back to her house, I had a moment. I don’t cry much, ever, but I had a moment. I wish I could make her feel safe and whole. I wish I could break into the labs where they’re doing all those amazing things that seem to be fixing Alzheimer’s and take the equipment for her.
I’ll only be away ten to fourteen days, but I know, just like that, there’ll be less of her when I come back.
But let’s refocus. I’m on my way back from the farm to the suburbs to feather that nest before Steven gets home tomorrow. I’m a little sad about the things we didn’t get around to exploring in Puerto Rico (just like that, it’s over), but I’m profoundly grateful for the experiences we had and I’m looking forward to sorting out the new normal here between the suburb and the farm.
As I settle into that new normal, I’ll be a more mindful of the ticks of time, in hopes to experience less I wish I had . . . and more I’m so glad I did that! Because, just like that . . . you know.
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Words depict feelings. Words tell a story. Words are more inspiring than humans. They don’t turn on you. They won’t turn on you. They are a reflection of who you are. Great blog!
Sounds like you made some great memories! That’s what life is all about.
Sweet moments should be treasured.
So very true!~Merri Beth
Yes, life goes on! Thanks be to Jesus for precious memories!