Cancer? I’m lifting you up.

Cancer? I’m lifting you up.

Your friend has cancer. Every genuine, heartfelt phrase you want to share sounds cliché and the more you delete and rewrite, the more your words become faded Hallmark sentiments. “How can I express to her how I’m feeling?” “How can I help?”

A Pepper Apology

A Pepper Apology

Growing peppers is fascinating, yet equally frustrating. My modest pepper garden has an extravagant history of false starts, flustered efforts, and full fails.

Love Is a Four-Letter Word

Love Is a Four-Letter Word

I’m writing this for the other people like me, who, at some point wondered if they were getting it all wrong, if they were incapable of true love, if they were broken because they couldn’t surrender their hearts with abandon.

Personality Type? Green, go with the flow

I “flow” because I’m a little lazy. It takes a lot of fight and energy to beat back the river.

Whose story is it anyway?

Whose story is it anyway?

If you’re not sure if you should be sharing your friend’s story, read this.

Open letter to a lost friend: Six Dollars and a Deadly Secret

Open letter to a lost friend: Six Dollars and a Deadly Secret

I had known you for twenty years, but in ten months, I learned I didn’t know you at all.