Happy Birthday Blog for a Chosen One

Happy Birthday Blog for a Chosen One

I may be the elder, but you’ve often modeled the kind of calm integrity I reach for. 
The way you move through the world—through the crowds, through change—without losing yourself.
Always aware of your center.
Always grounded in your truth.

Shadow Vs. Shoulders: Choosing Expression over Expectation

Shadow Vs. Shoulders: Choosing Expression over Expectation

Standing in shadow is hiding, cloistering.
Standing on shoulders is rising, opening.
From someone’s shoulders, I can see farther than they saw, imagine deeper, wider, wilder. I carry forward what they offered, but I’m not confined by it.

The Stubbornness of Caregiving

The Stubbornness of Caregiving

What is your relationship to caregiving?
Can you receive it with grace?
Can you offer it without losing yourself?
Can you allow the full range of your humanity—light and shadow—to exist within the caregiving arena?

Good grief! The pain

Good grief! The pain

I’ve learned and I understand that grief will be my companion from here on. I’m hoping this is where recovery from surgery and grief diverge.

Recovery: Knee-Deep

Recovery: Knee-Deep

But during this recovery, I’ve discovered there is one thing I miss when deprived of it: Writing.

Blog from a Fog

Blog from a Fog

So that’s my blog from a fog.

A reminder to stay open. To stay curious. Even when I can’t see far ahead.

To show up anyway

And to trust the page and the pen.