A Journey in Review, Post 53: Remember

A Journey in Review, Post 53: Remember

I’m not sure this is how it works for everyone, but for me, it was safe to be at her side as she withered. The memories I carry forward are the good ones. 

A Journey in Review, Post 52: Friends

A Journey in Review, Post 52: Friends

Caregiving isolates the caregivers too, not just the patient. During my isolation from my friends, my friends continued to be my rock. Make sure you have a rock, a safe place to fall apart… or not fall apart.

A Journey in Review, Post 51: Stop Comparing

A Journey in Review, Post 51: Stop Comparing

I’m glad I wrote about how I beat myself up, because it’s a reminder to be kind to myself, to stop comparing with a heart of impatience, fear, and disappointment.

A Journey in Review, Post 50: Surprising

A Journey in Review, Post 50: Surprising

Another surprising thing for me was the serenity I found when I released the need to control and made peace with simply showing up for whatever the day would bring.

A Journey in Review, Post 49: Ambiguity

A Journey in Review, Post 49: Ambiguity

Allow yourself to float from joy to sorrow, or just stand in a bittersweet swirl of all the big emotions.

A Journey in Review, Post 48: Choices and Regrets

A Journey in Review, Post 48: Choices and Regrets

You have choices. You can’t avoid regrets, but some regrets are harder to carry. Be mindful as you choose.